An opportunity for him or her ?

Steve was happy when his girl friend said that she would help him with his transformation.  She said she thought it that is would be a great challenge and she was just curious about how she would deal with it. She explained that she had been a little curious about some thoughts that went through her head occasionally, and was wondering how she would deal with them if given the opportunity.  Well now he was seeing now how she was dealing with things, now that she had the opportunity.